This is a video from the “ASK ME ANYTHING” session with Charlotte Snyder, from January 11th, 2026.
Thank you to everyone who participated and shared their thoughtful questions!
Here is a general timeline of the discussion:
4:00 – When Children Say “No!”: Understanding Power and Autonomy
9:10 – Staying Regulated When Your Child Pushes Boundaries
15:00 – Tools to Help Parents Respond Instead of React
20:25 – Why Montessori Doesn’t Use Time-Outs (and What to Do Instead)
26:40 – The Role of Natural Consequences and Follow-Through
32:15 – Respecting Emotions Without Giving In to Demands
38:00 – Montessori and Gentle Discipline: Finding the Balance
44:30 – How to Build Connection and Trust After Hard Moments
51:00 – Screaming, Hitting, and “Big Feelings” at Home
58:45 – Final Words of Encouragement and Parental Self-Compassion
