Big or small, transitions can be tough. Not just for children, but for the adults supporting them. Whether it’s adjusting to a new routine, starting school, leaving the park, or welcoming a new sibling, change brings big emotions. In this conversation, longtime Montessori educators Regina Lulka and Blanca Sanchez share practical tools and insights to help parents, caregivers, and educators guide children through life’s many shifts with empathy and intention.
We’ll explore:
- Why transitions can feel so overwhelming for young children
- How to support emotional regulation during moments of change
- Practical routines, language, and mindset shift that truly help
Whether you’re navigating the daily ups and downs or preparing for a big life change, this talk offers grounded support and realistic tools you can start using right away. It’s not about doing it perfectly — it’s about showing up with presence, compassion, and a better understanding of what your child really needs.
Timestamps
00:00 Introduction to Positive Language
01:31 Using Assertive and Consistent Communication
02:14 Offering Limited Choices to Children
06:30 Importance of Routines and Predictability
08:51 Handling Big Transitions
16:16 Modeling Calm and Patience
20:07 Q&A Session
25:02 Teaching Respect and Apologies
25:49 Acknowledging Mistakes and Learning from Them
26:45 Managing Transitions in Montessori Preschools
28:59 Helping Children with Strong Attachments
30:54 Addressing Rigidity in Children’s Routines
31:57 Toilet Training Challenges and Solutions
34:34 Preparing Children for Big Changes
36:38 Handling Resistance and Power Struggles
45:49 Dealing with Crying and Emotional Transitions
49:11 Final Thoughts and Farewell
