This enlightening talk, led by speaker Val Alino, is tailored for all adults fortunate enough to work with children, parents, or those contemplating parenthood.
Are u feeling burnt out and sometimes you don’t even know how to take action or respond to a situation? Have you ever been in a situation with other adults around you and it’s just being hard to even breathe?
Learn how the most difficult situations lead to you to the best teaching.
Learn how to be in tune with yourself and how to reach a point where no matter what is going on you keep your zen hat on…….
In this video
Repeating with a child what your own parents did with you, in the moments that are hardest. Val Alino talks with parents and teachers about where those patterns come from, and about forgiveness. A four-step approach starts with observing your child. The Q&A includes other adults who aren't on board, a 4-year-old lashing out and a 7-year-old who cries before school.
Chapters
- 0:00 Welcome and Val Alino's Montessori and coaching background
- 4:55 Preparing yourself, and why we repeat what our parents did
- 12:59 Focus on what you want, and stop blaming your parents
- 16:26 Turning pain into power and forgiving for your own sake
- 20:36 Picture the bond you want, and learn to love yourself again
- 27:49 Four steps: observe, feel, heal and learn from your child
- 33:45 Leading with your heart, and a girl who calmed her outbursts
- 39:57 Following your heart and the teacher who stopped hitting
- 48:49 When other adults aren't on board: model it and thank them
- 54:14 Raising kind, resilient kids by helping others in hard times
- 56:38 A 4-year-old lashing out: reconnect her instead of labeling
- 1:00:26 A 7-year-old who cries before school: ask about his fear
- 1:03:59 Living alone at 69 once your kids are grown
